Just another damn group blog!
First and foremost, let me say I hope everyone had an absolutely WONDERFUL Thanksgiving, full of oh-so yummy food and fabulous family interaction, followed by a nice, cozy evening of easy digestion and comfort.
Yeah, yeah, now, on with the story…
Because I’m sure everyone’s still busy enjoying their holiday, let’s keep this simple once again.
Thanksgiving’s all about being thankful. Gratitude. Stuff like that.
So let’s hear about some of the things in your life you’re grateful you DIDN’T do/get/keep. Because they seemed like gift-wrapped goodies at the time, but looking back now you can see…NOT.
Yeah, I know it’s perverse. Hindsight Thanksgiving. Wth—it is Black Friday, lol.
Shall I start?
Because this is basically a writer-based blog—I’m thankful I didn’t sign with the first e-pub that offered me a contract. And yes, I was right on the verge of doing it, being so eager to see my work in print of some kind. And it was a company that had been in business for some time. Luckily, I e-mailed one of their authors who warned me off. Since then they’ve garnered a bad rep for failure to pay or communicate with their authors. Thank you, O Universe.
I never thought I’d say it, but I’m actually sort of glad my first full-length manuscript didn’t sell to the big-time category print pub. Not that I don’t think it was good enough. I still think it was. But I was SO innocent and naïve and vulnerable (yeah, uh-huh, not like now). I’d like to think I’m a somewhat better writer now, and instant success probably might’ve messed with my mind big-time.
Might I add—I’m DEFINITELY ready any time you wanna bring it now, O Universe.
And on a personal note…I am ever SO grateful I didn’t marry the guy I was so madly in love with right out of high school. I was heartbroken…but he turned out to be a lecherous little fart who couldn’t keep a job to save his life. Thanksgiving to you, O Universe.
And you?
Bernita
November 27th, 2009 at 6:32 am
What a great idea!
Mine are too numerous to mention though.
Charlene Teglia
November 27th, 2009 at 7:58 am
There are many things I’m thankful I don’t have, but like Bernard, it’s a long list. I think I can start with being thankful I didn’t have a third child. *goes to break up fight*
Raine
November 27th, 2009 at 8:31 am
Mine are too numerous to mention though.
I was hard-pressed to keep it down to three too, Bernita.
Dennie ~
November 27th, 2009 at 8:33 am
hmm….
on the personal side: I’m glad I didn’t let my mother bait me yesterday. (And OH how she tried) I stayed calm and didn’t get mad once; which has never happened before.
on the writer’s side: that’s a hard one. I can’t think of anything of the top of my head
Raine
November 27th, 2009 at 8:34 am
I think I can start with being thankful I didn’t have a third child. *goes to break up fight*
Lol!
Happy Black Friday, Charli.
Melissa Blue
November 27th, 2009 at 8:46 am
I’m thankful my former editor didn’t outright reject my second novel. The next eight months was a lesson I needed to learn.
Lynn
November 27th, 2009 at 10:02 am
I’m grateful I didn’t fall for Edit Ink’s massive scam to defraud writers (I was one of the last unpublished writers they tried to swindle before they were shut down in ’98.) I actually spoke for an hour on the phone with Bill Appel, who had his book doctoring con working beautifully on me until he said, “We can edit your book, but we’ll need a check for $1500 for our services.” I’d promised myself I’d never pay to get published, and reluctantly but firmly turned him down. He kept trying to talk me into it, citing all these very believable stats and anecdotes before giving up and telling me to call him if I changed my mind about the book.
The book was StarDoc, btw, which sold along with a sequel five months later — no extra editing required at all.
Melissa Blue
November 27th, 2009 at 10:36 am
That is an awesome story. Awesome. I’m sure many of your readers are glad you stuck to your guns.
Tanya
November 27th, 2009 at 11:36 am
I’m thankful I didn’t marry the first jerk who asked me.
vanessa jaye
November 27th, 2009 at 6:00 pm
Only you would be this twisted, Raine. *g*
It’s 10 to 7pm and I’m still at work, just took a break to eat the other half of my lunch sandwhich that I had no time to eat earlier. And, well, this job sucks in many and varied ways, but, I’m employed, making a pretty decent living, and in many ways the job ain’t so bad, so I give thanks for that.
Also thankful I was smart enough to kick several ‘heroes’ in my past to the curb. ‘No man is better than the wrong man’, is the only peice of advice my aunt ever gave me, and as far as advice goes, that one was a winnah all the way.
Also thankful for the rejections I’ve recieved on various manuscripts from agents/editors. In every case, looking back, I’m so glad I was *given the chance* to improve the work (current wip included).
*sigh* must get back to my reports another hour and I should be out of here.
ps. Belated Happy Thankgivings to all my friends south of the border.
Raine
November 27th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
It’s odd to look back on what seemed like hard times at the time, and be able to see how they did us some good.
Glad it worked out, Mel.
Raine
November 27th, 2009 at 10:24 pm
I’m not familiar with the organization, Lynn—but yikes.
Happily, there are legions of fans who’re ALSO grateful you said “no”.
Raine
November 27th, 2009 at 10:26 pm
So are we, Tanya, lol!
Raine
November 27th, 2009 at 10:34 pm
Only you would be this twisted, Raine.
Have no idea what you mean, VJ.
I think your auntie rocks.
And kudos on the take on improving manuscripts. That’s a great attitude.
Amie Stuart
November 28th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
>>*goes to break up fight*
LOL U n me both though there are times i wish I had the money to adopt another child. Yes, I’m nuts. I keep telling myself the boys are almost grown–I’m on the proverbial home stretch but…sometimes…a girl would be nice
Amie Stuart
November 28th, 2009 at 1:38 pm
Tough question. I’m kind of glad I was given up for adoption. I KNOW My life would have been different and not necessarily in a good way. (I know for a fact my bio mom married a much older man then divorced him and went on to have three kids w/ her current hubby). I wonder how accepted I would have been.
Also did not sell to the first pub who offered.
Otherwise I can’t think of a lot I’m glad the Universe *didn’t* give me LOL
Raine
November 28th, 2009 at 6:18 pm
There’s always granddaughters.
>>>>>running>>>>>>>
Raine
November 28th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
That’s a fact, Ames. Adopted parents/family could certainly be better than the birth ones. Blood ain’t necessarily better.
BernardL
November 29th, 2009 at 9:51 am
I’m grateful I no longer feel guilty when I do nothing for a day.