August 28, 2008
Mad Men: Why This Show Drives Me Nutz
I recently rented the first three episodes of AMC’s award-winning show Mad Men. It’s titled after the self-ascribed nickname given to Madison Avenue marketing execs during the golden age of advertising. Set in the early ’60s, the
series chronicles the politically incorrect shenanigans of the men and women at Sterling Cooper, a fictional ad agency.
FWIW, Mad Men is a GREAT show. It’s beautifully shot. The costumes, hair, makeup and scenery are gorgeous. Not only that, the snappy dialogue shines, and the acting is first rate. Given all these pluses, I’d be crazy not to like this show right? Well, call me crazy because I just love to hate it.
Despite the fact that it’s a topnotch series chock-full of three dimensional characters and fascinating storylines, I find myself screaming at the TV. Why? Because I hate the era even though the era is what makes the show. You see, Mad Men exploits everything I despise about the late ’50s and early ’60s. For instance…..
I. THE ROLE OF WOMEN IN THE WORKPLACE AND SOCIETY
A) 99% of the females in this series are either secretaries, wives, mistresses or telephone operators. Apart from the mistress thingie, there’s nothing wrong with these roles except that back then, they were practically the only game in town for women. No wonder The Feminine Mystique took the nation by storm!
B) The men call all the women ‘girls.’ Even worse: The women don’t seem to mind.
C) Sexual harassment isn’t the scourge it is today. For instance, men don’t think twice about making inappropriate comments about their secretary’s bodies. One marketing exec had the nerve to suggest that a female new-hire show more ‘leg’ to gain favor. They also aren’t shy about making passes.
D) Misogyny rules. When the female heir of a successful department store chain strongly disagreed with the way they wanted to market her father’s company, one of the male characters spat, “I’ll be damned if I’ll let a woman talk to me like that.” And this is only one example of many.
E) An OB/GYN lectures one of his unmarried patients about the pitfalls of behaving wantonly when she requests birth control. He basically says that if he finds out she’s abusing the pills (by whoring around) he’ll cancel her prescription. Um, excuse me, but if she wants to hump the entire Seventh Fleet it’s HER freaking business!
II. THE ROLE OF MINORITIES IN THE WORKPLACE AND SOCIETY
A) An executive asks one of his peers if their agency employs any Jews. The guy’s response? “Not on my watch.” BTW, he asks this question because the agency has a big meeting with a Jewish department store owner and he wants to make a positive impression—by lying of course. If that’s not insulting enough, the only Jewish person they find works in the mail room, so they throw a suit on him and pass him off as one of their up-and-coming account executives.
B) You only see people of color as dishwashers, bathroom attendants and elevator operators. True, that’s just the way it was back then, but it’s still disturbing to watch.
III. CIGARETTES!!!!!!!!
A) Everybody–and I mean EVERYBODY–smokes. Even the damned GYN smoked while doing a pelvic exam! Don’t get me wrong, smokers have every right to smoke, but this was overkill.
B) The government cracks down on the tobacco industry by releasing the first of many startling reports on the dangers of smoking. This in turn rocks the ad agencies since they now have to scramble to find new ways to promote cigarettes for their clients. Having seen the harm the tobacco industry has done over the past 50 years by their blatant LYING, false advertising, not to mention how they intentionally produced an addictive product, I have no patience for this.
But you know what? Even after all my whining and complaining, I’m still gonna watch this damned show!?! Know why?
BECAUSE JON HAMM IS HOTTTTTTT!!!
Annnnnnnnnyway, is there a show that drives you bananas, but you keep watching? Also, what’s your favorite TV/cable show of all time?





I tried watching an episode, but couldn’t get through it. As you point out, it’s overkill. Every single item evil about the era is played up as if it were carried out on a daily basis by every person on earth. I’d rather watch ‘Burn Notice’.
The X-Files, followed by Buffy The Vampire Slayer were my two favorite series.
I have never seen the show. Being that I was born in the 70’s the entrie 50/60s allure to me is a cross between Doris Day, Gene Kelly, Beverly Hillbillie, cutsie-smootsie sitcoms and Lucy Ball–maybe I have looked through my mom’s year books one too many times and KNOW how those folks turned out and it loses it’s polish of wow and I don’t quite “get” it, so the show holds little umpth for me to make time to watch it. Then again, I JUST got my TV back thanks to school so maybe I will check it out and see what all the fuss is about.
I *HEART* Burn Notice!
Every single item evil about the era is played up as if it were carried out on a daily basis by every person on earth.
Now that I think about it, most new shows beat the audience over the head with things. Characterizations are usually exaggerated in the first few episodes, if not the first season because the writers, directors and actors are still trying to find the series voice. I don’t blame you for not watching. In fact, I told myself I wouldn’t watch any more after the first episode, however, since two other episodes were on the DVD, I finished them. Next thing I knew, I’d rented the second DVD. Boggles the mind as to why though.
I have looked through my mom’s year books one too many times and KNOW how those folks turned out and it loses it’s polish of wow and I don’t quite “get” it, so the show holds little umpth for me to make time to watch it.
It’s a fascinating look back in time. What intrigues me most is where I think the show is going, if what I read is true. They basically picked this specific time to show the transition period between ignorance and enlightenment. I don’t think a series has ever done that for this decade, especially not from the POV of the people who were the “pulse” and architects of the 60s–namely the ad men of Madison Avenue.
Any time I’ve seen something dealing with this decade, it was always about the unrest, drug use and civil rights struggle collectively. I’ve never seen anything that tackled how life was for the movers and shakers in New York, and what transpired to bring about change gradually. I’m especially looking forward to seeing how they’re going to handle the impact of Betty Friedan’s book.
Well, gee, don’t know quite what to say, lol…
Haven’t seen the show. But from the way you describe it, it sounds like what a 50s audience would expect to see from a 50s show. And that’s rather clever, actually.
I can see that the little idiosyncracies of the period would be irritating, yeah. But a good look at where we’ve come from isn’t a bad idea (don’t know if we’ve reached “enlightenment” yet, though).
Favorite tv show of all time?
I’m a simple soul. Probably Dark Shadows.
I really like Madmen. Not enough to make sure I watch it, but when I catch it, I settle back an enjoy. Interesting points you make. I think I suspend my distaste (rather than disbelief) for all those irritants you list because it’s true of it’s time.
As for shows I love to hate. Well, it used to be Smallville. Why the scene in the barn with Lorna and Kent (and the sappy emo music) at the end of every single freakin episode? Why? My irks with that show are too long to list, I finally stopped watching, but my son (sucker) can’t seem to break the habit, he still watches and then rants for the next days until the next episode..
And yes, Jon Hamm is da HAWTNESS!!! phew!
Well, gee, don’t know quite what to say, lol…
Yeah, this was quite an in-your-face post, I admit.
I can see that the little idiosyncracies of the period would be irritating, yeah. But a good look at where we’ve come from isn’t a bad idea (don’t know if we’ve reached “enlightenment” yet, though).
I think the brunt of my negative reactions were basically due to the culture shock of the first few episodes. I’ve since watched the entire first season and now I’m hooked.
Favorite tv show of all time?
I’m a simple soul. Probably Dark Shadows.
I loved Barnabas too.
I really like Madmen. Not enough to make sure I watch it, but when I catch it, I settle back an enjoy. Interesting points you make. I think I suspend my distaste (rather than disbelief) for all those irritants you list because it’s true of it’s time.
I know what you mean. It really has a way of drawing you in. I remember telling DH after I’d watched the first episode that I’d never watch again. LOL
As for shows I love to hate. Well, it used to be Smallville. Why the scene in the barn with Lorna and Kent (and the sappy emo music) at the end of every single freakin episode? Why?
I KNOW! Wasn’t that irritating. It was like they couldn’t think of anything else. I got so sick of that damned barn.
And yes, Jon Hamm is da HAWTNESS!!! phew!
I can’t decide whether I like his hair slicked back or natural. He looks absolutely YUMMY either way.