January 15, 2008
Fetish much?
I don’t know that I have any odd fetishes (well not that I’d share anyway), but I was watching my husband one day–he was tying his shoe, very bland, nothing exciting–and I was watching his hands. He has pretty strong hands. And it got me thinking, I ALWAYS look at men’s hands. Don’t know why, but I always have.
As a matter of fact, there is this particular guy from my “list” (you know the married couple list, usually celebs and whatnot whom you never have a shot in hell meeting but if you do you’re allowed to–hmm-hmm with them and not get in trouble). I was looking at his hands and they were nice strong and …small. Kinda bothered me. I didn’t take him off my list, but it made me consider knocking him down a notch or two.
I never thought I was quite so opinionated about hands, but the more I thought about it I realized I am. I also thought over all my heroes and, while I may not write it in the book as a descriptor, I can tell you how each and every one of theirs hands are–down to scars or freckles.

I don’t like when guys bite their nails or have manicured nails. Tattoos and hands are dependant on what and where it is (saw one in a movie the other day I kinda liked, gave him an edge).

Again, I can tell you about each hero in my books and I think it affects how I feel about them when I write and how my heroine feels about him and whatnot. Is this weird? Aside from actual fetish books, do other writers have that “thing” they know in great detail about their heroes (or heroines)?
and please . . . don’t get me started on feet–UGH!



I’m not awake enough for this question - it requires too much thinking …
I love hands too, Dennie. Love big, strong cable hands, that also move with care, dexterity and gentleness. Clean short nails are a must. And, even though it’s been scientifically proven that there’s correlation between hand size/appearance and that other male appendage…. *g*…. I still can’t help but wonder about it.
I also love nice legs on a guy. The type of legs a tennis player would have, toned, with powerful thighs/calfs, but lean and long– not bulky wrestler type thighs. And arms, shoulders, back, chest, abs, ass…. ::drool:: Oh, and eyes and his smile. Very much so.
Is this weird?
Ummmmmmm………………….yes.
No, just kidding, lol.
I don’t focus much on the hands. They’re all strong–and yeah, definitely clean. Big? Not a big deal.
Eyes and smiles seem to be important to me, not sure why. But I seem to make a lot of comments about them in my writing, lol. Oh, and a nice, deep voice doesn’t hurt at ALL.
Ok Personally I LOVE Forearms…….they are to me what hands are to you–*sigh* In writing, it’s different things but probably like Vee voice, smile and eyes are important.
Oh, yippie!! We’re back.
Okay, I like hands too. But I’m really partial to a torsos. Yum, yum, YUMMY!
I have to go change my panties now
Me too….
I am totally with Vanessa on this thing. I like the smile and voice too.
I like strong looking hands. They don’t need to be large per se, but girly looking hands on a guy just give me the willys. No effeminate gestures, etc. I’ve never understood how, in some books, they talk about an Alpha male character (big business man, etc. who never takes the time to have a hair cut) with manicured nails. You never have them describe when they could manage to work that in. Must happen by magic in their sleep. (You know, a stalker manicurist)
I have a thing about men’s hands. Definitely. And mouths.
And chests.And…
two words: Vin Diesel
OMG! The voice alone!
I guess there is a whole package thing going too. If you get a guy with it all, move over darlin’ my “list” just expanded!
I have to go change my panties now
I actually had a good pic of Gary’s arms but since it was focusing on hands I left it out . . . damn me . . .
You know, a stalker manicurist
LOL . . . there’s an image for ya
I actually had a good pic of Gary’s arms but since it was focusing on hands I left it out . . . damn me . . .
Stingy Bitch