*sigh* I’ve decided it’s time I dated again.

It’s been six years and honestly, I think I’m ready. I know what I want (a friend with benefits) and what I don’t want (marriage) and I feel like I”m in a good place to get what I want. But here’s the deal–it’s so EASY to find a reason to reject a man (and yes, I know I have issues).

Anyway, I placed a person ad and I got a lot of hits. Unfortunately most of them seem interested in cyber-sex than anything. And one rather sad discovery I made (Thursday night on IM–though I”m convinced part of the problem was he was asking me my favorite position and I was trying to watch the Cavs and the Spurs…hello BASKETBALL) was that I don’t know what to say…so, besides the obvious “Be yourself” I’m looking for dating advice from you ladies out there.

Come on…help a sister out. Cuz here’s the thing….the longer I wait, the harder it’s going to be. And it’s already hard. No puns intended