December 29, 2006
Insanity and the New Year
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
~~ Benjamin Franklin
It will not come as a surprise to some that I’m familiar with the definition of insanity.
The legal definition notwithstanding, I always liked this one. It’s simple, down-to-earth–and right on target. I think so many of us get into ruts and comfort zones (yes, I’m guilty of this) that it never occurs to us to make even little changes in our lives and routines. And we wonder why nothing new or exciting ever happens to us, and why each day seems the same, and each just blends into the next, and where did the week/month/year go?
Maybe for the New Year we should try something ‘different’ once in a while. Just to avoid the insane asylum, y’know?
If you’re leery about leaving that comfort zone, maybe you could try baby steps. Variety being the spice and all that. Take a different route to work. Who knows who or what you might run into? Experiment with different types of food more often, or just change the way you accessorize or style your hair. Dress up, dress down, run around the house stark naked doing primal screams with swizzle sticks up your nose and see how much better you feel! (not that I’ve experienced that, of course…)
If you’re a writer, definitely try something different. Having trouble getting in the door? Maybe there’s another genre that would be better for you. How will you know if you don’t try? Or send your work to publishers or agents you might not have considered before. Remember–all roads lead to Rome, even those less traveled.
Becoming bored with your own writing/plots/progress? Take it in another direction. Just for fun, add a little mystery, a little more or a little less sex, try a different period in time. Or toss in a werewolf or two, just to see what happens. You might surprise yourself!
A total revamping of your life isn’t what we’re talking here (unless that’s the way you want to go). But if you’re looking for different results, why not try different ingredients? What’ve you got to lose?
And since this is my last Chica post for 2006, I want to thank everyone for visiting us here, and wishing you a wonderful New Year, with just the right amount of spice.



Sometimes it’s fun though - being in…a rut…
Happiest of New Years to all of you!
I’ll run around stark naked but no swizzle sticks. Waht if i fell down? They’d get jammed up in my brain!
LOL AMIE! I’ve done the naked thing. It’s liberating. ;)
I think next year I’m going to try to write something with Brava in mind…
Happy New Year, everyone!
Take a different route to work. Who knows who or what you might run into?
Have you been looking at my current WIP? LOL
Let’s see, I’ve started braiding my hair instead of piling it up on top of my head with a clip. Is that a start? I could get up on the other side of the bed, but then I’d run in to a wall … I am slowly making changes, starting with “it”. *vbg*
Running around naked? Even I don’t want to see that - could traumatize the cats. *gg*
I have a T-Shirt that says:
I don’t suffer from insanity. I’m enjoying every minute of it.
Happy New Year!
I like your t-shirt Bailey! :-)
But writing less sex, Raine… hmmm … my mother would be so happy - LOL but somethings to seriously consider!
Bernita, quite right.
Sometimes it is. And it lends a sense of security, something most of us need.
Just for those of us who wonder “why isn’t anything HAPPENING in my life?”—I think ol’ Ben provided the answer there.
And a Happy New Year to you too!!
Amie, try cutting the swizzles in half.
That way, if you fall you’ll just clear your sinuses.
Mik, yay for the naked, and good luck with the Brava!
And to you, Jaq.
Hoping you’ll be celebrating the next one in that new home!
…I have a T-Shirt that says:
I don’t suffer from insanity. I’m enjoying every minute of it.
Well geez. Here I finally write a nice, normal, no-spew, pc blog post, and this is what I get.
(love the t-shirt, Bailey, lol!!).
It could be interesting, Dennie, just as an experiment, or change of pace.
and this is what I get.
What were you expecting? It’s me …:roll:
I think that’s actually great advice. Seriously. I went with an agency that isn’t known for representing romance. I wrote something that was out of the norm for me. Now I’m working on something that is even further off the trail. And you know what? I am loving every minute of the journey…even the ones that piss me off. *ggg* Happy New Year!
Happy New Year everyone!
I think that’s actually great advice. Seriously.
See?? Jordan agrees with me.
(even if she sounds surprised about it–lmao!)
Happy New Year, Jordan!
Happy New Year, Estella!
LOL!
Gee, and I thought I was being , yanno, a little naughty…
Happy New Year, Chicas!
Gee, and I thought I was being , yanno, a little naughty…
Bernita, I suspect you often are.
And here I am, being all serious!!
(note to self…lighten up in 2007…)
Happy New Year, Chicas.
Best wishes, Chicas, for a new year filled with joy, love, good health, friendship, and enough of whatever you want and need to fulfill your deepest dreams and desires.
Happy New Year, dear Daisy, and may it be the best ever!